Failure is Not an Option

Failure is Not an Option

Who wants to be successful?  But have you ever thought about what true success would be for you?  What is it? Would it be selling more homes? Alarms? Building a million-dollar company? Having a great family?  What would success look like for you? When I was growing...
How Does Divorce Show Up?

How Does Divorce Show Up?

Once we’ve been divorced, the devastation has many faces. It may come in the form of addiction—alcohol, drugs, sex, or other destructive behaviors. I chose work as my drug of choice. Sounds positive, but it was just as deleterious as any other drug. Sure, it had sound...
Have You or Your Ex-Lover Sabotaged Your Sexuality?

Have You or Your Ex-Lover Sabotaged Your Sexuality?

Imagine you are at a fabulous party in a fairytale home in the awesomely beautiful Malibu, California. You are thrilled to have been invited to this amazing event. The music is playing, couples are dancing, the gowns are exquisite, and the jewelry dazzles. This is...
Surviving Christmas Alone

Surviving Christmas Alone

CAN CHRISTMAS BE JOYFUL EVEN IF YOU ARE DIVORCED? Each year of marriage weaves a web around the couple. Children, pets, lives intertwine and the net is securely tied. But if you are divorced, the untangling is brutal and holidays are the worst! It seems like the whole...
Do You Need a Husband at Christmas

Do You Need a Husband at Christmas

WHY IS MARRIAGE STILL THE PARADIGM–ESPECIALLY DURING THE HOLIDAYS? As women, we define ourselves by our connection to a man. Are we someone’s wife? Lover? Think about Eat, Pray, Love. The book opens with the main character leaning over the toilet bowl, certain...
Would you Stay

Would you Stay

WOULD YOU STAY IF YOUR SPOUSE WAS UNFAITHFUL? Would you stay in a relationship if you knew your husband was unfaithful? Sometimes we’ll do anything to preserve the family or the myth of marriage. Look at Hillary Clinton. Her husband betrayed her trust and had “sex”...
Sexual Harassment – The Other Half of the Story

Sexual Harassment – The Other Half of the Story

While the Harvey Weinstein story is considered news-breaking, it is as old as time! Men have wielded power over women since the caveman days. Women were considered property to be bought and sold for centuries and it continues in many countries. Currently, that seems...